Peer Pressure Advice for Teens

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Peer pressure seems to go with the territory of being a teen. The solution is to figure out whether you’re under negative or positive peer pressure and respond in a way that is best for your health, happiness and well-being. Here are a few tips for dealing with peer pressure.

1. Think before acting. Your group of friends may be pressuring you to join them in an activity that you’ve never done before. Step back before committing and ask yourself if the activity will be good for you.

2. Distinguish between negative and positive pressure. Negative pressures push you to do things that may cause harm. Drinking alcohol, taking drugs, engaging in unprotected sex and participating in activities that harm others fall into the negative peer pressure category. Positive peer pressure is any activity that helps you to achieve your life goals and promotes well-being for yourself and others.

3. Say no when necessary. Turning down opportunities to hang out with friends can be a tough thing to do. You may be afraid of being alone or gossiped about by your friends. However, your real friends will understand your choices and appreciate you for who you are. It takes courage to say no, but always think about how your actions will affect your life down the line.

4. Consult with a trusted adult. Your parents, relatives, teachers, school counselors or athletic coaches may be people you can turn to if pressure from your peers starts to get to you. Adults who know you will be able to support you with situation-specific advice.

 

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University: Just a Click Away

It’s an expectation of distance: your child is meant to seek the world, to travel to a faraway campus. A high school diploma has been earned. College should be the logical step in a logical sequence, with a teen meant to explore academia.

But your teen is apprehensive about this next step in his education. Moving on to college sparks concern, with him hesitating to fill out applications, unwilling to complete forms. He doesn’t want to go and you are baffled.

You needn’t be.

Teenagers aren’t defined by certainties. Assuming that your child will bound happily off to college is a mistake. The distance may seem too great; the cost may seem too high; and surrendering himself to books may seem like a waste of the summer. Alternatives must be considered – and online courses can provide them.

Teens who are not yet ready to face traditional campuses can still gain an education. Online learning is available with classes conveniently scheduled and information earned from a computer. Most universities (a national estimate of almost 60 percent) provide virtual programs. This ensures that students can access the courses they need while still remaining with their families, which may offer some relief.

Fleeing home for a college campus is considered a milestone. Some teens may not wish to experience it, at least not immediately. Choosing online classes can provide a bridge to a delayed entry into college. Or, your teen may choose to rely on the comforts of the bedroom and knowledge gained with ease to earn a degree.